Category: Asexual

Asexual, LGBTQIA+

I’m a cishet guy. Asexual men are not discussed enough as a group. Growing up, I felt an immense amount of pressure to try and fit in with the “Sex-obsessed” man.
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

It helped me feel less alone about my sexual experiences and to learn the differentiation between arousal and attraction.
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

I stop and think “what do I feel when I think someone is hot?” and it’s just that they are very good looking. I’m ace, I’m not blind. I still don’t feel anything sexual for them. And I don’t usually find people “hot”.
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

Outlook on sex is that its fine if it’s between two consenting adults but isn’t something I ever want to experience.
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

Asexuality is not a hormone imbalance, it’s not just trauma (though it can come from it), it is genuinely a sexual orientation, like any other
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

Sex, speaking for myself is more about pleasing my loved one and wanting to make them feel good.
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

I can actually view women as people rather than sex objects
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

At the beginning, I thought it was mostly “doesn’t wanna have sex” and while I know now the definition is more akin to “doesn’t feel sexual attraction” the first definition still applies to me
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

When I learned about the term I was like “ooooh, so that’s what I am”
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

I wish people didn’t assume asexuality is a fear of sex. It’s not a trauma induced orientation, just like homosexuality isn’t trauma induced. There is no rhyme or reason for being asexual, we simply are.
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

Love is okay, sex is gross. I feel love – but not in romantic way. I love my cats, i love my job.
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

Discovering asexuality was a positive, exciting thing. I did not have to “come to terms with it”; I embraced it. It felt good to know it was a thing, and that it made sense for me
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

I wish people understood that asexuality isn’t hating sex and never having sex.
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

I thought about my attraction to people and I wasn’t able to find any part of it that was sexual.
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

I felt broken. I questioned myself what was wrong with me. Why cant i do the things that seem normal for all the other people. Why is it so easy for other people?
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

We are not robots, we can have sex if we want to, we are fully fledged persons, we are not children, do not pity us, we are not broken and thus not in need of fixing
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

The human race has been brainwashed with the fact that romance and sex is what makes us human, when that isn’t true
Asexual, LGBTQIA+

Love doesn’t equal sex. Just because my other half and I don’t have sex doesn’t mean I love him any less than any other would their spouse.

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