What’s your current relationship status, and how does being childfree factor into it?
Single and childfree loving it.
Do your family members know about your decision not to have children? Walk me through those conversations. How did different people respond? Where do things stand now? If there are people you haven’t told, what influenced that decision?
My sister but mom she don’t care
How, if at all, has being childfree played out in your friendships? This might include how friends have reacted to your decision, friendships with parents, or anything else that feels relevant.
My friends are okay with that desicion.
What’s your experience with the childfree community? If you’ve found one, what has it meant to you?
It’s been great so much support
Outside of close friends and family, how open are you about being childfree? What influences whether you tell people?
I’m not that open I mostly keeping ti myself.
What has it been like telling people you’re childfree? Have any conversations or reactions particularly stayed with you, whether positive, negative, or unexpected?
Depending on the person reaction some like it some don’t some like oh she is going to change her mind.
Childfree people often face recurring assumptions about their choice. Below are some of the most common. Feel free to respond to any that have come up in your experience, or that you simply have views on.
Being childfree is selfish.
Being childfree isn’t selfish it’s the most responsible choice that a human being makes.
You just haven’t met the right person yet.
That’s how you feel.
You’ll change your mind.
How do you know? You haven’t written my whole story yet your Not God.
You’ll regret it one day.
That’s your opinion.
You hate kids.
Actually I love kids but the difference is that I don’t want to bring one because I do not know how to manage one. They’re parents out there who still don’t know how to manage kids
Your life lacks meaning or purpose.
Nope I have Jesus inside he’s my meaning and purpose
You’ll be lonely.
No I have God
Who will take care of you when you’re older?
Jesus as long I’m healthy and exercising I’ll be great 😃.
Is there anything else you’ve encountered or want to address?
Not really thank you 👍💯
What are your thoughts on pronatalism?
Never heard
What are your thoughts on antinatalism?
Not familiar
What are your thoughts on childfree representation? This could include media, books, films, television, social media, or public conversations. Is there anything you’d like to see change or more of?
I have no opinion
What changes do you think would make society more inclusive for childfree people? This could include policies, institutional practices, or cultural norms.
I’m not sure
How, if at all, does being childfree influence the way you think about aging? This might include things you look forward to, concerns you have, practical considerations, or maybe it’s just not something you think about very much.
No concern just living life
Have you thought about planning for later life? This might include retirement, healthcare, housing, finances, support networks, emergency contacts, estate planning, or end-of-life preferences.
Growing my income
What resources have been especially meaningful or helpful to you as a childfree person? Are there resources you wish existed?
Resources for childfree People
Looking back on your childfree life so far, what has surprised you most? What did you not expect about how it would actually feel or unfold?
I’m not sure
Is there anything you wish you’d known sooner?
Not that I think of
Tell me about the joys of your childfree life. What are the things that make you grateful for your choice?
Freedom and independence
What do you wish more people understood about what it’s actually like to be childfree?
Freedom
Do you have a message for childfree people?
Don’t let people dictate your identity and decisions.
Do you have a message for friends or family members of someone who’s childfree?
Yes
How do you feel about your childfree life overall? What stands out when you look at the whole picture?
Awesomeness less stress more FREEDOM I’m glad I made that decision no regrets.
Is there anything else you’d like to share about your childfree experience?
Freedom